Welcome to episode 405 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I am delighted to be speaking with Dr. Tracy Gapin, a board-certified urologist and founder of the Gapin Institute. In this discussion, we’re exploring the core habits men can build to support their sexual health, while also recognizing how closely it's linked to overall well-being. We’re focusing on key elements like gut health, regulating blood sugar, balancing hormones, and managing stress—all of which are essential for maintaining sexual vitality.

Tracy Gapin, MD is the founder and CEO of the Gapin Institute, the Leader in Precision Medicine. He’s a board-certified urologist and world renowned men’s health & performance expert with over 25 years of experience focused on men’s health optimization, performance and longevity. Recognizing our traditional healthcare system is broken, he created the proprietary Gapin Precision Method and G1 Program for High Performance Health, designed to help entrepreneurs optimize their mind and body so they can be the best version of themselves.

He’s a member of the American Academy of Anti-Aging, Age Management Medical Group, and the International Peptide Society. He’s a thought leader, a TEDx speaker, and the author of the best-selling books Male 2.0 and Codes of Longevity. He’s been featured on NBC, Entrepreneur Magazine, and Dave Asprey’s Biohacking Conference.

In this episode, you will hear:

· Foundational Habits for Male Sexual Health

· Understanding Sexual Health Beyond the Physical

· The Importance of Vascular Health

· Hormones and Sexual Performance

· The Role of Cortisol and Stress

· Diet and Nutrition for Sexual Health

· Blood Sugar Regulation: Carbs and Protein

· Hydration and Blood Sugar's Impact on Sexual Health

· Fasting: Benefits and Best Practices

· The Truth About Ozempic and Weight Loss

· Early Signs of Sexual Health Issues in Men

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Welcome to episode 404 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I am delighted to be speaking with Dr. Daniel Watter. In this conversation, we discuss his insightful book: “The Existential Importance of the Penis: A Guide to Understanding Male Sexuality”. Dr. Watter explains how childhood trauma can influence sexual dysfunction, why men might experience erectile unpredictability in deepening relationships, and how existential crises can lead men to seek a functioning penis at great lengths.

Dr. Watter is an AASECT-certified sex therapy supervisor and has been elected to Fellowship Status in the International Society for the Study of Women’s Sexual Health (ISSWSH) and the Sexual Medicine Society of North America (SMSNA). In addition to his clinical practice, Dr. Watter has held several faculty appointments. Currently, he is a faculty member at the University of Michigan School of Social Work’s Sexual Certification Program and the Modern Sex Therapy Institutes.

A frequent lecturer at professional meetings throughout North America, Dr. Watter is the author of more than 30 professional articles and book chapters on topics such as sexual function and dysfunction, and ethics in healthcare practice. He is the author of the recently released book, “The Existential Importance of the Penis: A Guide to Understanding Male Sexuality”.

In this episode, you will hear:

● Understanding Male Sexual Communication

● War Veterans and the Existential Crisis of Losing the Penis

● Medical Interventions and Psychological Impacts

● The Deepening Relationship and Erectile Unpredictability

● Existential Psychotherapy and Sexual Addiction

● Sexual Addiction and Existential Psychotherapy

● Confrontation with Mortality and Sexual Behavior

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Welcome to episode 403 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I am delighted to be speaking with Jean Franzblau.In this conversation, we discuss the meaning of kink, sexual shame, and the misrepresentation of kinky behaviors in media. They also discuss the importance of consent, safe words, and the impact of cultural norms on sexual expression.

As an Intimacy Coordinator for TV and film, Jean Franzblau helps actors perform sexy scenes with respect and care. This year she made a decision to disclose her private backstory. She is the writer and performer of My Mother Doesn't Know I'm Kinky.

It's an award-winning solo play which is now on tour. Passionate to share what she has learned, she created the Sexual Bucket List online class. You can find Jean featured in Rolling Stone and as a guest expert on Keeping Up with the Kardashians.

In this episode, you will hear:

· Understanding Kink and Its Cultural Context

· Media Representation of Kink

· Personal Experiences and Reflections on Kink

· Sexual Shame and Healing

· Discovering Kinks and Early Memories

· Communicating Desires in Relationships

· Tools for Safe Exploration of Kinks

· Understanding Slow Healing Kink

· Resources and Tools for Exploring Kink

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Welcome to episode 402 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I am delighted to be speaking with a professional dominatrix and author - Tina Horn. In this conversation, we discuss her book, Why Are People Into That?: A Cultural Investigation of Kink, the evolution of Internet platforms for sex workers, and the politics surrounding sex work and bodily autonomy.

Tina Horn is a writer, educatrix, and media-maker. Her book of fetish cultural criticism based on her long-running indie podcast Why Are People Into That?! will be out in June 2024 from Hachette.

Tina is the creator/writer of the sci-fi sex-rebel comic book series Safe Sex (Image), and the cult detective thriller Deprog; she was also the host/cowriter of the phone sex podcast Operator (Wondery). Her reporting on sexual subcultures has appeared in Rolling Stone, Playboy, Hazlitt, Glamour, Jezebel and elsewhere; she is the author of two nonfiction books and has contributed to numerous anthologies including We Too: Essays on Sex Work and Survival, which she also coedited.

Tina has lectured on adult entertainment politics and queer BDSM identities at universities and community centers all over North America, and works as an on-set consultant for theater, film, and television including the dominatrix scenes of Pose. She is a LAMBDA Literary Fellow, an AVN nominee, the recipient of two Feminist Porn Awards, and holds an MFA in Creative Nonfiction Writing from Sarah Lawrence.

In this episode, you will hear:

· Understanding Anal Sex Myths

· Anatomy and Safe Practices

· Exploring Anal Play

· Fisting and Safety

· Diet and Hygiene for Anal Health

· Hemorrhoids and Anal Sex

· Anal Orgasms and Prostate Stimulation

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EP401 - A Little Behind: Exploring Anal Play and Pleasure

Welcome to episode 401 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I am delighted to be speaking with Dr. Evan Goldstein. In this conversation, we discuss his new comprehensive book on anal sex ‘Butt Seriously’, safe practices for anal engagement, the impact of diet on anal health, and the exploration of anal orgasms.

Dr. Evan Goldstein is the leading anal health expert in the United States, founder of Future Method, and one of the few surgeons in the world whose practice, Bespoke Surgical, is dedicated to treating and restoring the human butt. He holds a perennial spot on the list of top doctors for the New York metro area, and Crain’s New York Business lists him as one of its notable LGBTQ+ leaders and executives.

He has been featured in national publications including GQ, Well+Good, Men’s Health, Cosmopolitan, New York Magazine, Forbes, Fast Company, Out, and Shape; is a popular podcast guest; and in demand as a speaker for both medical and sex-positive industries.

In this episode, you will hear:

· Understanding Anal Sex Myths

· Anatomy and Safe Practices

· Exploring Anal Play

· Fisting and Safety

· Diet and Hygiene for Anal Health

· Hemorrhoids and Anal Sex

· Anal Orgasms and Prostate Stimulation

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Welcome to episode 400 of the Sexology Podcast! Today, I'm thrilled to be speaking with Susan Morgan Taylor. In our conversation, we delve into the sexual polarity that draws partners together, highlighting the significance of embodying and shifting between masculine and feminine energies. We also explore ways for couples to reconnect, focusing on the importance of conscious intimacy practices and effective communication, including the idea of 'sacred dialogue'.

Susan Morgan Taylor graduated from UC Santa Barbara in 1998 and soon after became a licensed massage therapist. However, her true calling lay elsewhere. In 2008, she began formal training in alternative energy healing and the intuitive arts, leading her to a new path as a spiritual teacher, somatic sex therapist, and intuitive healer. Susan's journey was filled with challenges, mistakes, and growth. Her friend and mentor, Teresa Tingle, played a crucial role in her development, providing guidance that went beyond classroom learning. By 2008, Susan was working professionally as a medical intuitive and spiritual guide.

In 2011, Susan earned a master’s degree in Professional Counseling and pursued sex therapy, building a successful practice in Austin, TX. After ten years, she transitioned to focus solely on intimacy and somatic sex coaching for couples and individuals, continuing her dedication to healing and personal growth.

In this episode, you will hear:

· Understanding the Loss of Sexual Charge

· Reviving Sexual Polarity

· Embodied Intimacy Practices

· Creating Space for Passion

· The Dance of Desire and Communication

· Clarifying Sexual Intentions

· Navigating Oral Sex Preferences

· Blowjob Tips for Enjoyment

· Cultivating Self-Pleasure

· Reigniting Passion in Relationships

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Welcome to episode 399 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I am delighted to be speaking with Veronica Cisneros. In this conversation, we explore personal anecdotes from both our marriages, looking at the dynamics of long-term relationships, and share tips for maintaining a strong, passionate connection.

Veronica Cisneros is a licensed marriage and family therapist with over seven years of experience. She is also the owner of a group private practice, a mother of three, and has been married for 21 years. Veronica specializes in helping housewives transform their marriages, communicate effectively, and build confidence. She understands the challenges of cutting through communication barriers, having experienced them herself. Despite having what seemed like an ideal life, she and her husband felt disconnected, with conversations often revolving around avoidance, kids' hobbies, and schedules.

In her private practice, Veronica has assisted numerous couples facing similar struggles. Her proven strategies and step-by-step skills have helped hundreds of women reignite their marriages. Known for encouraging women to step outside their comfort zones, Veronica does not offer superficial solutions. Instead, she teaches life-changing healing methods.

In this episode, you will hear:

· Veronica's Love Story: Meeting Willie

· Maintaining the Spark in Marriage

· Navigating Resentment and Roles in Marriage

· Personal Growth Amidst Challenges

· Curiosity and Relationship Agreements

· Defining Cheating in Relationships

· Navigating Fidelity Conversations

· Understanding Family Scripts

· Setting Boundaries and Communication

· Self-Discovery and Independence

· Feeling Sexy and Confident

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Welcome to episode 398 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I am delighted to be speaking with Edy Nathan. In this conversation, we explore the idea of sexual grief. Edy explains how this term is tied to the traumatic events that can shape one's sexual identity and desire. Drawing from her clinical experience, Edy provides a thorough look at how sexual grief appears and impacts people.

Edy Nathan is a licensed clinical social worker in private practice in New York City. Edy’s work focuses on topics surrounding the tough conversations people don’t like to have — grief, sex, and trauma. Her work in grief, trauma, and sexuality offers insight into the way loss affects the soul and the brain. She uses these insights to breathe new meaning into the lives of those stagnated by loss or trauma.

Edy has master’s degrees in psychology, drama, and social work, and post-graduate work in sex therapy and sex education. She is a Certified Sex Therapist, certified Hypnotherapist, EMDR clinician, drama therapist, Psychology Today blogger, motivational speaker, and workshop leader. Edy is the author of “It’s Grief: The Dance of Self-Discovery through Trauma and Loss.”

In this episode, you will hear:

· Edy's Journey to Discussing Sexual Grief

· Defining Sexual Grief

· Identity and Sexual Trauma

· Developmental Sexual Grief

· Sexual Grief and Trauma

· Clinical Responses

· First Sexual Experiences

· Hostage Situation in Grief

· Curiosity and Exploration

· Conservative Backgrounds and Shame

· Recovering from Sexual Grief

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