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Summary

The key to doubling your productivity is a simple, two-letter word.

Are you tired of putting everyone else’s priorities ahead of your own?

Have you tried saying no to people but didn’t want to seem harsh?

Have you agreed to something just to avoid conflict?

Have you thought about whether or not the reason you're stuck is you, or at least something about you? 

Are you confused about what the true reason might be?

Do you feel like your people-pleasing has let others down, somehow, or worse, failed your younger self, wasted potential, or squandered opportunities?

You may have tried some ways of getting a grip on your time but failed. What would you say if there was a solution? A way to finally get control of your time and life. 

This is what Saying No (Thank You) is all about. Inside, you’ll discover:

  • Exactly why we just love saying yes
  • How to say no and feel good about it - anytime, anywhere
  • The four reasons people-pleasing is toxic 
  • The six bulletproof strategies for saying no, without sneaky tactics
  • How to stop doubting your decisions
  • Exactly what to say to coworkers, friends, family, in person, and in writing
  • How assertiveness can help you say no

Whether it’s your boss, friends, or mother-in-law, you can use the techniques outlined inside immediately. 

With this audiobook, you'll also get a productivity accelerator workbook! It contains productivity advice and years of practical application of productivity techniques. It may just be one of the keys to your success. See the instructions in the accompanying PDF in your Audible Library to get it instantly.

If you’re ready to finally take control of your life, get the success, time, and freedom you deserve, scroll up and click the “Buy Now” button.

PLEASE NOTE: When you purchase this title, the accompanying PDF will be available in your Audible Library along with the audio.

©2020 Peak Productivity (P)2020 Peak Productivity

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VERY GOOD BOOK

Loved this and I will be listening to it again to fully understand the tips he shares

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Everything is great

The best book among all the audible books I have. This has a clear explanation to make you understand the need to say No and it has practical ways to actually apply the principles.

There are a lot more you will realize and learn by listening to this book.

It is such a good book that I would share this with my family and friends.

If you buy only one book to help you deal with the urge to always say Yes, this is the one! This will change your life. It won’t just make you feel good, but it will also lead you to achieve what you really want in life.

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Self-awareness and empowerment

This book opened my mind to things I never knew because I was too busy to notice. I now understand why it's always been difficult for me to say No especially to my co-workers who need help. Now that I have the know-how and the self-assurance, I feel a lot of positive changes are coming my way. This book is very helpful to anyone feeling like a horrible person when saying no to someone. It inspired me to take action to make my life better. A No to someone is definitely a Yes to me - this is my mantra from now on.

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Very useful

I found this book really helpful with the situations that need a “No” and the strategies to say No. There are a lot of times where I struggle to refuse. I hardly say No to anyone. Because of this, I created a lot of problems for myself. Saying Yes to almost everything can cause burn out in the end.

I am good at juggling tasks but this time, I’d like to give more value to the things that really make me happy. I am going to use what I learned from this book to gradually say No to save myself.

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Well-written and very informative

The author did wonderful work. The delivery is direct and logical. He applies his logic to everyday scenarios instead of just telling you what you should do. He clearly identifies some ethical issues that people face when trying to say No.

When you listen to this book, you will discover the main points, relate to plenty of examples, and learn from the simple application of the principles. It’s a very good and organized way of presenting a number of approaches to say No.

If you have any problems when it comes to being assertive or expressing your true feelings, this can be a very helpful book.

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Very timely

I loved this audiobook. It’s exactly what I needed at this point in my life. Because of the pandemic, I had so many epiphanies about what I’m doing with my life and what I should do to make it better. I realized that life is short and we should make the most out of it. Spending time on what matters most is very important. While I’m stuck at home, I’ve read many books about life improvement and this is one audiobook that I really admire.

It is well-written and packed with information and tips that are very useful to live a happier life.

I highly recommend this book.

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Worth sharing with others

I usually don’t leave reviews, but this book made a great impact on me that I feel compelled to recommend this to everyone struggling to find true happiness and feeling stuck in achieving their dreams. This book will teach you a lot of things, it will give you insights, tips, and realizations. If you put all of them together, it will make a positive effect on the quality of your life.

I learned a lot more from this book than any other book about saying No or people pleasing.

It is clear, informative, and every chapter is engaging. It is narrated well, too.

It is worth listening to more than once.

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  • Anonymous User
  • 31-05-21

Yes, but.. no, thank you...

This narration became to monotone and robotic to me.
I'v lost it into the second chapter, so i can't give a full review, but i presume the book continued the same style trough out the rest of the chapters.. yes, no, maby? Whatever..
I start with a harsh but polite "no" to this book...
But hey, maby this is the most effective self-help book ever, after all..
I learned to say no, in just two chapters!
YES! ...NO, is the answer.

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  • Anonymous User
  • 19-11-20

Excellent audiobook on being more productive

I learned a lot from the information in it. Some of my favorite takeaways were that by not learning to say no, I am giving away my time and, therefore, my life. We cannot focus on life's essential things when we say yes to other people's concerns.

All in all, I give this audiobook five stars and will recommend it to my colleagues. Grab this audiobook if you want to take your productivity to the next level.

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  • Liz E.
  • 21-10-20

Two useful books in 1 purchase

I got more than my money’s worth from this purchase! Apart from the impressive content in the book, it also includes a Productivity Accelerator Workbook, which is very helpful, and it’s free.

I can’t thank the author enough for putting his ideas and techniques out for people to make use of.

Saying No (Thank you) has given me so much clarity on my everyday life and the Productivity Accelerator Workbook has amazingly balanced my workload.

With these tools together, I believe I have the best edge to attain success and fulfill my lifelong dream.

This is at the top of my list.

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  • Decker Joseph
  • 21-10-20

Made me understood myself

The best audiobook I got so far. I believe understanding and being true to myself is a huge part of being able to make a change. This is a big learning for me, now I have more confidence communicating how I feel, better boundaries in relationships, and what I am most happy about is that I can finally present my authentic self.

Pick this one up, you won’t regret it. A

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  • Ramiro Flores
  • 21-10-20

I love this

Can’t believe how well this book handled this subject! Every single chapter benefitted me somehow. For me, the most impressive part of the book was that it breaks down all the areas needing improvement and correction.

It’s not too general, unlike other books. It has real advice and it explains information and problems specifically.

The author clearly understands the struggles of a people pleaser. There is so much information in this book that I plan to purchase the paperback so I can easily access the strategies and empowering quotes.

I love the way it is written and the way it is listen to.

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  • Dahlia Robles
  • 21-10-20

What a blast

Before I purchase a book, I usually browse the reviews and comments to check if a particular book is what I’m really looking for.
I never wrote a review on anything, but I decided to leave a comment hoping that it would help someone the way it helped me.
I wholeheartedly believe this book transforms lives. It will teach, explain, and guide you through the process of finding your true self for you to realize what you need to do to fix your life. It’s definitely worth your time, money, and energy. If you’re looking for the best book on this topic, you should consider this.

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  • Evelynn Daniel
  • 21-10-20

Worth the wait

For the past months, I’ve spent listening to books that I thought would address my issues about people-pleasing.
It took me three books until I discovered Saying No (Thank you). How I wish I found this sooner.

This is the book that spoke to my personality exactly. It resonated with my struggles mentally and physically. It freed me from the chains of living as a doormat and brought out my true self that I’ve been sharing with only those who were very close to me. It really did change my life. I’ll never need another self-help book to deal with this topic again. Now it’s just a question of applying everything I’ve learned!

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  • Chandler Hodges
  • 21-10-20

Godsend!

I used to be very timid. I would feel anxious about what people would think of me, so I thought being a people pleaser would make them like me. Sadly, it turned out it isn’t what they were drawn to. Trying to please people by dedicating my time in accommodating them made me stressed and unhappy. I wasn’t entirely sure what was wrong, but one day, I stumbled upon this book on Amazon and I’m pretty sure God had sent this to me. This book is powerful. I am now more confident, relaxed, and I am able to have great relationships with people. I wouldn’t have gotten to this point in my life if it weren’t for this book.

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  • Iker King
  • 21-10-20

Simply the best

This book is beneficial because it not only gives you strategies to be assertive in saying No, but it helps change your mental condition as well.

This book is full of life-changing information that empowers you and inspires you to act at once.

The narrator is also fantastic, I caught myself clinging to every word he said because he speaks like he is talking to you. Like he’s right there with you.

He emphasizes words flawlessly and his speed is just right. If you want to do something huge in your life, this book will definitely help you achieve it. I highly recommend this.

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  • Romina Clark
  • 21-10-20

Deserves a 10!

Exceeded my expectations! This book has a great concept. It is useful for anyone, especially if you are the type that gives too much of your time or service. Being too nice to people may cause others to take advantage of you or if someone is very close to you, it may make the person dependent on you. It’s not healthy for both of you if this treatment continues, so it’s important to have clear boundaries.

This book will teach you how to say No to people in a way that won’t hurt their feelings and on your part, you won’t feel guilty.

It is informative and easy to understand. Top marks!