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Family Disappeared

Family Disappeared

By: Lawrence Joss
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Have you lost contact with your child? What about your parent, or grandparent, sibling, or any other family member? You might be experiencing estrangement, alienation, or erasure. All of these terms speak to the trauma and dysfunction that so many families face.

A family is a complex living and breathing system. Each member plays a role in the family dynamic. When families carry generational trauma and/or experience new trauma, challenges, or dysfunction, this can result in a break in the family system.

These reaction strategies are habitual and very often interwoven into every aspect of how our family interacts.

Hi! I´m Lawrence Joss and I’ve learned that I need to cultivate a spiritual, emotional, and physical relationship with myself in order to have healthy relationships with others and everything in my life. It is my mission to help you create and nurture that relationship with yourself first and provide you with tools that might help you heal and strengthen family relationships.

This podcast is an opportunity to explore our healing journey together through the complexities of our families.

Welcome to the FAMILY DISAPPEARED podcast.

For more information, visit:
Website: https://parentalalienationanonymous.com/
Email- familydisappeared@gmail.com
Linktree
https://linktr.ee/lawrencejoss

© 2025 Family Disappeared
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Episodes
  • Letting Go, Holding On: The Paradox of Healing from Alienation & Estrangement Part 2 - Episode 99
    Jun 23 2025

    This conversation explores the themes of self-love, gratitude, and recovery from alienation. The speakers share their personal journeys, emphasizing the importance of connecting with oneself and the transformative power of gratitude. They discuss how alienation has led to unexpected connections and deeper empathy in relationships, as well as the challenges and growth that come from navigating these experiences. The conversation highlights the significance of community support and the ongoing process of healing and personal development.

    Key Takeaways

    • Learning to love oneself is crucial for recovery.
    • Gratitude can shift perspectives and enhance life experiences.
    • Alienation can lead to unexpected and valuable connections.
    • Empathy for others can transform relationships.
    • Past experiences shape our current perspectives on relationships.
    • Self-connection is essential for healthy relationships with others.
    • Recovery is a long process that requires patience and humility.
    • Community support is vital in the journey of healing.
    • Recognizing the importance of small wins in recovery is key.
    • Gratitude can be found in the most challenging situations.

    Chapters

    00:00 - The Journey of Self-Love
    02:05 - Understanding Gratitude in Recovery
    04:00 - Alienation and Unexpected Connections
    09:20 - Transforming Relationships Through Empathy
    13:00 - Lessons from Past Relationships
    20:22 - The Importance of Self-Connection
    25:41 - Hope and Community in Recovery
    29:38 - Gratitude for Future Opportunities

    Related Gratitude Episodes:

    • “Grateful and Grieving” – A panel of alienated parents share their stories Part 1
    • “Grateful and Grieving” – A panel of alienated parents share their stories Part 2
    • Letting Go, Holding On: The Paradox of Healing from Alienation & Estrangement

    If you wish to connect with Lawrence Joss or any of the PA-A community members who have appeared as guests on the podcast:

    Email- familydisappeared@gmail.com

    Linktree: https://linktr.ee/lawrencejoss

    (All links mentioned in the podcast are available in Linktree)

    Please donate to support PAA programs:

    https://www.paypal.com/donate?hosted_button_id=SDLTX8TBSZNXS


    This podcast is made possible by the Family Disappeared Team:
    Anna Johnson- Editor/Contributor/Activist/Co-host
    Glaze Gonzales- Podcast Manager

    Connect with Lawrence Joss:
    Website: https://parentalalienationanonymous.com/
    Email- familydisappeared@gmail.com

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    37 mins
  • Letting Go, Holding On: The Paradox of Healing from Alienation & Estrangement - Episode 98
    Jun 16 2025

    In this episode of the Family Disappeared podcast, the panel discusses the complexities of gratitude in the context of parental alienation and emotional pain. They share personal stories of healing, the challenges of navigating family dynamics, and the importance of finding joy in small moments. The conversation emphasizes the need for self-care and the journey of letting go of emotional attachments while fostering resilience and community support.

    Key Takeaways

    • Gratitude can coexist with pain and emotional hurt.
    • Personal stories of alienation highlight the journey of healing.
    • Finding joy in small moments is essential for emotional well-being.
    • It's important to acknowledge the complexity of gratitude.
    • Self-care is crucial when navigating difficult family dynamics.
    • Letting go of emotional attachments can lead to personal growth.
    • Community support plays a vital role in healing.
    • Emotional responses to family dynamics can vary greatly.
    • Practicing gratitude can shift one's perspective on life.
    • The journey of healing is ongoing and requires patience.

    Chapters

    00:00 - Navigating Gratitude Amidst Pain
    04:10 - Personal Stories of Alienation and Healing
    10:51 - The Complexity of Gratitude
    17:06 - Emotional Responses to Family Dynamics
    24:20 - Finding Joy in Others' Happiness
    30:48 - Letting Go of Emotional Attachments
    33:14 - Reflections on Gratitude and Life Changes

    If you wish to connect with Lawrence Joss or any of the PA-A community members who have appeared as guests on the podcast:

    Email- familydisappeared@gmail.com

    Linktree: https://linktr.ee/lawrencejoss

    (All links mentioned in the podcast are available in Linktree)

    Please donate to support PAA programs:

    https://www.paypal.com/donate?hosted_button_id=SDLTX8TBSZNXS

    This podcast is made possible by the Family Disappeared Team:
    Anna Johnson- Editor/Contributor/Activist/Co-host
    Glaze Gonzales- Podcast Manager

    Connect with Lawrence Joss:
    Website: https://parentalalienationanonymous.com/
    Email- familydisappeared@gmail.com

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    36 mins
  • “Healing from the Inside Out” - with Inner child Specialist Jen Peters Part 2 - Episode 97
    Jun 9 2025

    In this conversation, Jen Peters and Lawrence Joss explore the complexities of trauma, healing, and the importance of inner child work. They discuss how unresolved trauma affects relationships, the significance of reparenting oneself, and the role of forgiveness in the healing process. The conversation emphasizes the power of personal agency in healing and the impact of individual work on family dynamics. Jen shares practical steps for reconnecting with one's inner child and highlights the importance of community support in the healing journey.

    Key Takeaways

    • Recognizing that others act out of their own unresolved trauma can provide insight into their behavior.
    • Healing is a personal journey that does not require closure from others.
    • Our partners often reflect our own inner child wounds, which can complicate relationships.
    • Understanding our attachment styles can help us navigate relationships more effectively.
    • Reparenting involves becoming the nurturing figure we needed in childhood.
    • Forgiveness is about recognizing that we did the best we could at the time.
    • We have the power to change our lives by addressing our core wounds.
    • Community support is essential for healing and personal growth.
    • Inner child work can lead to profound changes in family dynamics.
    • Healing is an ongoing process that requires patience and self-compassion.

    Chapters

    00:00 - Understanding Trauma and Healing
    05:07 - The Role of Inner Child Work
    09:57 - Attachment Styles and Relationships
    14:47 - Reparenting and Forgiveness
    19:54 - Success Stories in Healing
    24:59 - Resources and Community Support

    Here's the link to the free e-book PDF entitled "Coming Home":

    https://jen-peters.com/wp-content/uploads/2024/12/Coming_Home_-_The_Path_to_Healing_Your_Inner_Child_-_Digital_version-2.pdf


    Coming Home shares my personal story, including a 14-year narcissistic/codependent marriage, the breakdown of that relationship, and the profound healing journey that followed.

    Beyond my story, Coming Home is a comprehensive guide to trauma healing. It offers step-by-step processes for addressing and healing the 12 primary inner child trauma themes, all using my signature method - the Jen Peters Multidimensional Healing System.


    If you wish to connect with Lawrence Joss or any of the PA-A community members who have appeared as guests on the podcast:

    Email- familydisappeared@gmail.com

    Linktree: https://linktr.ee/lawrencejoss

    (All links mentioned in the podcast are available in Linktree)

    Please donate to support PAA programs:

    https://www.paypal.com/donate?hosted_button_id=SDLTX8TBSZNXS

    This podcast is made possible by the Family Disappeared Team:
    Anna Johnson- Editor/Contributor/Activist/Co-host
    Glaze Gonzales- Podcast Manager

    Connect with Lawrence Joss:
    Website: https://parentalalienationanonymous.com/
    Email- familydisappeared@gmail.com

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    33 mins
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