• #335 | Does Shame Work as a Motivator?
    Sep 30 2024

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    In this episode, we dive deep into shame as a motivator. We share personal experiences about what drives us to keep going, revealing the power of positive self-talk and the pitfalls of relying on shame. We discussed how using shame to push people will hinder their growth rather than propel them to the next level. Discover why shame might not be the key to unlocking your potential and learn how to cultivate a more supportive and practical approach to personal growth.

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    #295 | Motivation Monday: 3 Tips to Feel More Effective - https://apple.co/4eoOjNw
    #274 | What Causes Our Emotions, and How Do We Change Them? - https://apple.co/4apbzZI

    Out of the Mud (OOTM): Letting Go of Deep-Seated Guilt: https://bit.ly/OOTM102024

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    Show notes:
    (1:31) Emilia and Bianca's experience of being hard on themselves
    (10:34) Bianca reflects on the effect of her mom's self-talk
    (16:58) Shaming others won't help them progress
    (21:16) You are not alone
    (23:56) Outro

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    26 mins
  • #334 | How to Know if You Were a Parentified Child?
    Sep 26 2024

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    In this episode, we discuss the complex topic of parentification. We explore the signs of being a parentified child, including taking on responsibilities for your siblings and parents' well-being, often at the expense of your own needs. We discuss the heavy burden of caring for siblings or parents and how this early responsibility can shape your adult life. We provide clear signs to identify if you’ve experienced this and what it means for your personal growth. With thought-provoking insights, we also challenge the idea of parenting when one isn’t fully equipped to provide.

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    #302 | No IS a Complete Sentence - https://apple.co/47ze1vQ
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    Out of the Mud (OOTM): How to Finally Feel Independent: https://bit.ly/OOTM092024

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    Show notes:
    (1:42) Being responsible for your siblings and parents
    (7:44) Here's what Matthew has to say about the Evolve Ventures community and how it has helped in his journey
    (8:36) Children are not responsible for their parents
    (10:34) An example of parentification
    (15:47) Outro

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    18 mins
  • #333 | Why You Don't Trust Yourself to Make Decisions
    Sep 23 2024

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    Today, we dive deep into some factors why you might be struggling to trust your judgment. We talk about the influence of your family of origin and how it shapes your decision-making process. Learn how to tap into your gut feelings and develop emotional literacy to make confident choices that align with your true self. Tune in for this episode and unlock the power of self-trust in taking control of your decisions in life!

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    #278 | Do You Know What Happened to You? - https://apple.co/3Wmmgb1
    #307 | Motivation Monday: The - Evolve Ventures - https://apple.co/3MgRB9a

    Out of the Mud (OOTM): How to Finally Feel Independent: https://bit.ly/OOTM092024

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    Show notes:
    (1:56) Why don't you trust yourself
    (5:01) Family of origin matters when we make decisions
    (11:59) Trusting your gut and how you feel when making decisions
    (16:03) A lot of people aren't emotionally literate
    (19:34) Outro

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    23 mins
  • #332 | What to Do If You Feel Trapped In Your Relationship
    Sep 19 2024

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    Today, we dive into the complex topic of feeling trapped in a relationship by discussing the emotional toll of being with someone you're no longer in love with and the loss of control over your own life. We explore how relationships can shift from bliss to needing repair and provide actionable advice on making things feel right again.

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    #288 | Does Accepting Mean It's Okay? - https://apple.co/3whtzGs
    #313 | Motivation Monday: Top 3 Habits to Feeling More Free - https://apple.co/3WGQ1SN

    Out of the Mud (OOTM): How to Finally Feel Independent: https://bit.ly/OOTM092024

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    Show notes:
    (1:47) A client who is not in love with their partner
    (3:58) Not having the agency of your own life
    (7:28) Going from rapture into repair in a relationship
    (10:35) Amanda highlights the impact of group coaching with Evolve Ventures, sharing how it has significantly contributed to her personal growth.
    (13:27) How do you begin to have it feel right
    (16:36) Bianca shares a tip to increase self-trust and self-belief
    (20:58) Outro

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    24 mins
  • #331 | Are You Emotionally Immature?
    Sep 16 2024

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    In today's episode, we tackle the topic of emotional awareness, starting by breaking down what emotional intelligence really means. We delve into the complex world of emotional growth and explore the key signs that you might be struggling with emotional immaturity. We introduce three essential keys for developing emotional maturity and emphasize the importance of humility in personal growth. Gain insightful tips to help you navigate your emotions to level up your emotional intelligence.

    Here’s the list of episodes related to today’s discussion and why we highly recommend listening to them as well:
    #296 | How to Be More In Control of Your Feelings - https://apple.co/4dVj5NP
    #281 | Motivation Monday: How to Tell Hard Truths - https://apple.co/4bljS8M

    Out of the Mud (OOTM): How to Finally Feel Independent: https://bit.ly/OOTM092024

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    Show notes:
    (2:31) How do you define emotional intelligence
    (5:45) How to know if you're emotionally mature
    (12:21)The three keys showing emotional maturity
    (18:11) Humility to reflect on the level of your maturity
    (22:56) Outro

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    25 mins
  • #330 | How to Know If You're Truly Selfless
    Sep 12 2024

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    In this episode, we define selflessness in a way that challenges common assumptions. Uncover how to tell if someone's selflessness is genuine or merely a front by breaking down the key qualities of a selfless person. From defining selflessness to uncovering the subtle differences between genuine intentions and hidden motives, we explore the key qualities that define truly selfless individuals. Tune in to challenge your own intentions and deepen your understanding of such selfless acts.

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    #281 | Motivation Monday: How to Tell Hard Truths - https://apple.co/4bljS8M
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    Show notes:
    (1:40) How would you define selflessness
    (3:53) The intention of being selfless
    (7:43) The qualities and characteristics of a selfless person
    (12:15) Isaac shares what it's like to be part of the Evolve Ventures team and what he loves about it
    (16:07) What could others benefit from you
    (19:32) What is the motivator underneath?
    (21:42) Outro

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    24 mins
  • #329 | Why We STOP the Most Important Things We Need to Grow
    Sep 9 2024

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    This episode takes you on a fascinating journey into the delicate interplay between arrogance and humility on the path to success. We share the inspiring story of someone whose relentless humility and determination allowed her to continue growing, even after achieving her initial goals. We also highlight the importance of maintaining the very habits and practices that initially led to success, emphasizing that consistent effort and humility are critical for long-term achievements.

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    #301 | Motivation Monday: Building Mental Resilience Never Does You Dirty - https://apple.co/4cXk6U9
    #308 | What Stories Are Your Inner Critic Writing? - https://apple.co/3A6Y83

    Out of the Mud (OOTM): How to Finally Feel Independent: https://bit.ly/OOTM092024

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    Show notes:
    (1:37) Struggling to stick to things that matter
    (7:38) Wanting to do it on your own
    (13:08) Get out of the pain state
    (15:23) Humility to keep going
    (25:08) Outro

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    28 mins
  • #328 | Why Friendships Are So Hard As We Grow Up
    Sep 5 2024

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    Have you ever felt guilty for not keeping in touch with a friend you deeply care about? You're not alone. Today, we unpack the emotional complexities of maintaining friendships in adulthood, where busy schedules and life's changes often get in the way. We dive into the concept of the "guilt bridge," sharing heartfelt personal stories, including a poignant moment of reconnecting with a long-time friend after seeing her engagement announcement on social media. We highlight the importance of vulnerability and honest communication, showing how these can help preserve meaningful connections, even when life pulls us in different directions.

    Here’s the list of episodes related to today’s discussion and why we highly recommend listening to them as well:
    #305 | Motivation Monday: How to Respect Yourself - https://apple.co/3ZfEWuD
    #303 | Motivation Monday: Redefining Loneliness - https://apple.co/3Mxx9Ru

    Out of the Mud (OOTM): How to Finally Feel Independent: https://bit.ly/OOTM092024

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    Show notes:
    (1:56) Guilt bridge of friendships
    (8:08) Normalizing distance in friendships and releasing the guilt
    (11:28) Charlie highlights the invaluable role of the Evolve community support system in her journey toward self-discovery
    (14:25) You stop seeing friends
    (18:33) Give up to get up
    (21:51) Outro

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    24 mins