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  • Recognizing the Traits and Finding Healing After Hidden Emotional and Psychological Abuse
  • By: Debbie Mirza
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  • Length: 6 hrs and 42 mins
  • 4.7 out of 5 stars (306 ratings)
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Summary

The Covert Passive Aggressive Narcissist: Finding Healing After Hidden Emotional and Psychological Abuse is the most comprehensive and helpful audiobook on the topic of covert narcissism. This type of narcissism is one of the most damaging forms because the abuse is so hidden and so insidious. You can be in a relationship that can last for decades and not realize you are being psychologically and emotionally controlled, manipulated, and abused. 

These people are well-liked; they are often the pillars of the community. Parents, spouses, bosses, and friends who are covert narcissists come across as the nicest people. They can be spiritual leaders, they are moms who bring over casseroles to needy people, they are the bosses who everyone loves and feels so lucky to work for. 

These relationships are incredibly confusing and damaging. They leave you questioning your own sanity and reality. Even though they are treating you terribly, you wonder if you are the problem, if you are the one to blame. You are filled with constant self-doubt when it comes to these people in your life. When you are around them, you feel confused and muddled inside. You have a hard time seeing clearly. 

These relationships can bring you to a state of deep depression and complete depletion of energy. You may wonder if you will ever see clearly and heal from these destructive and debilitating relationships. 

This audiobook will give you hope that you can heal and feel alive again, or maybe for the first time. You will learn what the traits of a covert narcissist are, as well as how they control and manipulate. Your eyes will open, and your experience will be validated. You will also learn ways to heal and actually enjoy life again. 

Debbie Mirza uses decades of her own experience with covert narcissists as well as her years of practice as a life coach who specializes in helping people recover and heal from these types of relationships.

©2017 Debra Mirza (P)2018 Debra Mirza

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Very helpful, but repetitive

well thought through, and inspirational, but does cover the same ground over and over again without the level of depth I would really have liked

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Thank god I found this book!!!

This book has been a complete eye opener for me!! It helped me putting together all the missing pieces and confirmed everything I was feeling. After this ,everything made sense and my confusion disappeared. I’ve never come across a book,where every single word made so much sense. If you’re looking for answers about covert narcissists,you‘ll find them in there!!! An enormous help!! Thank you Debbie Mirza!!!🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻

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Very validating

So glad I read it, has given me hope and insight. Thank you very much!

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Incredible

This book resonated all of my experiences entirely, and perfectly. It’s undeniably brilliant. And to have the author narrate was absolutely superb.

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So much insight ans wisdom!

This is such and important and poorly understood topic. Essential reading for anyone going through or recovering from covert abuse.

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Amazing read

I've read a lot of books on this subject and this is the best by far.

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Thankful for this book

I couldn’t believe how much I could relate to this book. Found it really refreshing and comforting.
Such an eye opener. Thank you Debbie!

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Essential resource for victims

So amazingly helpful. When you've been through this or are still going through it, it's so awful and confusing, so hard to put into words. Debbie Mirza does that perfectly, so other's who've not experienced it may understand and can help you heal.

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Written from the heart

Beautifully written book, written from the heart. Debbie shares a very valuable knowledge about covert narcissism mixed with her clients' stories and with such a supportive words and guidlines to all narcissists survivals. If you are the one you will feel a new strength and love energy after reading it.

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An absolute must!

Validating, empowering, healing and much more . Lovely tone of voice and articulate 😘

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