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Untying The Knot with Lisa Gu

Untying The Knot with Lisa Gu

By: Lisa Gu
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Welcome to Untying the Knot, your go-to podcast for all things divorce. We're here to share stories and strategies to help you untangle the knots in your divorce, so you can navigate it with confidence and clarity and build the life you desire.

Lisa Gu
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  • #14. Why Mindset Matters in Your Divorce with Kayleigh Kennedy
    Jun 7 2025

    A few days ago, I opened up my journal and found this one-line entry from May 10, 2021:

    "Meeting with the mediator. I am not a victim. Control what I can."

    Reading it brought tears to my eyes.

    I was in the thick of it—pregnant, postpartum, heartbroken, and overwhelmed by the emotional and legal chaos of divorce.

    At the time, I didn’t even realize how stuck I was in survival mode.But that one sentence marked a quiet turning point.It was the moment I chose to lead my divorce, rather than letting it lead me.

    That’s why I sat down with business and mindset coach Kayleigh Kennedy to explore how mindset shapes every part of the divorce journey—and why it’s one of the most powerful shifts we can make when everything feels out of control.

    💡 In this episode, we talk about:

    How to stop reacting and start responding with intention

    Why indecision quietly erodes your self-worth during divorce

    What it really means to rebuild your identity and confidence from the inside out

    Kayleigh also opened up about how her mindset work became a lifeline for her and her family during her son’s cancer treatment—a powerful reminder that this inner work goes far beyond divorce. 💗

    And one of my favourite takeaways from Kayleigh?

    “You can’t outperform the image you hold of yourself.”

    Because divorce, while painful, is also a rare opportunity to come home to your true, authentic self.

    If you’re contemplating “should I stay or go”, stuck in divorce legal limbo, or simply trying to find your footing again after divorce… I hope this episode brings you clarity and hope.


    Follow Kayleigh on Instagram

    Follow me for inspiration and tips on how to reinvent yourself through divorce:
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    I'm here to support you to turn the chaos into clarity and create a life you love! 💪✨

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    49 mins
  • #13. Reclaim Your Glow Through Divorce: Skincare Tips with Emilie Scissons
    May 29 2025

    When I was going through my divorce, I barely washed my face.
    No, seriously. My skin, my hair, my joy… all of it took a backseat. Survival came first.

    But over time, I learned something:
    ✨ Taking care of your skin is not superficial.
    ✨ It’s one of the first ways you start coming back to yourself.

    In this week’s episode of Untying the Knot, I’m joined by my dear friend Emilie Scissons, founder of Sugar Savvy Beauty Boutique, to talk about:

    💆‍♀️ How skincare can become a ritual of healing
    🧴 What products and routines work even when time and money are tight
    🧖‍♀️ The power of mini moments — facials, masks, even a clean pillowcase
    👨‍🦰 And yes — why men need skincare too (especially before re-entering the dating world 😉)

    One of my favourite moments?
    When Emilie shared how a client going through divorce said, “I’m starting to feel like me again.”
    That’s the real glow-up.

    🎧 Tune in and treat yourself — even if it’s just five quiet minutes with your moisturizer.

    Book an appointment at SugarSavvy.

    Use the discount code 'CoachLisa20' to receive 20% off all services.


    Follow me for inspiration and tips on how to reinvent yourself through divorce:
    📸 Instagram
    🌐 Facebook
    ▶️ YouTube
    I'm here to support you to turn the chaos into clarity and create a life you love! 💪✨

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    30 mins
  • #12. Divorce Finances 101 with Carlton Benjamin
    May 2 2025

    This conversation delves into the financial complexities individuals face during and after divorce. Carlton Benjamin, a financial security advisor, and Divorce Coach Lisa share insights on managing emotions, long-term planning, and the importance of life insurance.

    The discussion covers various financial aspects, including investment accounts, pensions, and tax implications, emphasizing the need for a structured approach to rebuilding financial stability post-divorce.
    We also tackle practical, often-overlooked questions like:
    ➡️ What to do with joint life insurance after separation
    ➡️ How to handle RESP contributions when co-parenting
    ➡️ Tax traps to avoid when dividing RRSPs, selling property, or receiving spousal support


    ☑️ How to split pensions and retirement accounts without triggering penalties
    ☑️ What "irrevocable beneficiary" really means—and why it matters
    ☑️ How to rebuild your financial foundation after divorce


    If the money side of divorce is stressing you out, or you’re unsure what you don’t know...


    🎧 This episode is for you.
    P.S. Follow Carlton on Instagram @father0fsky3 for more practical tips on building financial security, understanding insurance, and protecting your future.

    Follow me for inspiration and tips on how to reinvent yourself through divorce:
    📸 Instagram
    🌐 Facebook
    ▶️ YouTube

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    43 mins
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