Episodes

  • 242: Giving Someone the Bicycle
    Jul 23 2025

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    Lee and Simon navigate tech issues, family estrangement, censorship, and a terrible Wimbledon defeat.

    Get in touch with Lee and Simon at info@midlifing.net.

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    30 mins
  • 241: A Massive Discrepancy Between My Email and My Face
    Jul 16 2025

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    Simon and Lee swap stories about how AI makes writing easier and helps smooth out prickly emails, even if they feel a bit uneasy about it all. They also talk a bit about underpants, academic jargon, and the oddities of midlife.

    Get in touch with Lee and Simon at info@midlifing.net.

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    25 mins
  • 240: Threadbare smalls and other legacies
    Jul 9 2025

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    Lee and Simon discuss whether they’re in a second act or nearing the end of their working lives. They reflect on legacy, how little most of us are remembered, and how not having children changes that.

    Get in touch with Lee and Simon at info@midlifing.net.

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    26 mins
  • 239: Commando at Five O’Clock in the Morning
    Jul 2 2025

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    Simon reflects on feeling in and out of control while managing tinnitus; Lee discusses boxers, rewilding sleep, and lime wall repairs.

    Get in touch with Lee and Simon at info@midlifing.net.

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    24 mins
  • 238: Cicadas on the Inside, Birds on the Out
    Jun 25 2025

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    Simon shares a new tinnitus struggle; Lee discusses scones; both reflect on midlife pride, sleep, and renovation woes.

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    28 mins
  • 237: That's Dirty. That's Real Dirty.
    Jun 18 2025

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    Lee and Simon go from jam donut focaccia to knitting mistakes, obscure theatre shows to random celebrity run-ins – just the regular midlifing drift.

    Get in touch with Lee and Simon at info@midlifing.net.

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    27 mins
  • 236: Do you think you suffer from pronoia?
    Jun 11 2025

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    Lee and Simon talk about high school reunions before Simon launches a broadside against Meta (and gets a little hot under the collar) and then they finish with a quick chat about pronoia.

    Things covered:
    Bob and Lee's 29th wedding anniversary, Simon's 40 year high school reunion, reminiscence bump, the consequential things that happen to us when we are young, who we are is context, Lee rodding a drain (in Lisbon), home repairs in another country, Lee still talking about drains, the minds of two men (from a listener), saying gidday to Pete, something about Meta and Instagram and the advertising model, Zuckerberg's Hot or Not, the cultural role in how the advertising model functions, the horror of Instagram's algorithm, pronoia (Fred Goldner), harder to imagine than paranoia, Simon has chocolate in the cupboard (and hasn't eaten it all), strawberries in Lisbon, having glutenous bread sold by a Coeliac.

    Get in touch with Lee and Simon at info@midlifing.net.

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    24 mins
  • 235: They no longer have needs, they are dead.
    Jun 4 2025

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    Lee and Simon talk about a moral conundrum: whether we ought to follow the wishes of the dead or that we owe more to those who remain alive.

    Things covered: video calls and the future, Blake and Jerusalem, Simon dancing in Dorset, Helen Poynor, transformative art, Jefrey infected by another dog (Lola), Lee practising looking up, Simon has a moral conundrum about following the wishes of the dead or taking care of the living, giving people the option, Simon's feeling about honouring the wishes of the dead, the emotional intelligence of Lee's dad (Norman), Lee's grandad was a wheelwright, not falling out over a wheelbarrow, sentimentality, being clear or not.

    Get in touch with Lee and Simon at info@midlifing.net.

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    27 mins