• How LK10 creates spaces for "Hesed" Community to form.
    Aug 19 2024

    Lk10 trains spiritual moms and dads to form Joy-fueled, Jesus-led communities of practice. In this video podcast they gather together from the US, England, Ireland, and India to share around

    1. How LK10 creates spaces for securely attached community to form
    2. What practices have been most transformative
    3. What pitfalls we should aviod in nurturing hesed community this way.
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    1 hr and 15 mins
  • 63. Running Fast and Far Part 2
    Jan 4 2024
    In this “Struggling to Stay Joy fueled and Jesus Led, Toni and Matt discuss the dangers of believing that God desires us to run fast and far to complete the great commission. What if we are to run when He says run and rest when He says rest and wait when he says wait? How would that change the way we approach ministry and the way we do or do not judge others?
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    40 mins
  • 62. Running Fast and Far for God together …Is that even possible and is it even biblical?
    Dec 28 2023

    In this “Struggling to Stay Joy fueled and Jesus Led, Toni and Matt discuss the dangers of believing that God desires us to run fast and far to complete the great commission. What if we are to run when He says run and rest when He says rest and wait when he says wait? How would that change the way we approach ministry and the way we do or do not judge others? How did Toni handle herself when she was triggered by this statement recently.


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    39 mins
  • 61. Part 2 of Thank You Hang Ups (Reciprocity norms) through the Lens of Spiral Dynamics
    Dec 20 2023

    In this “Struggling to Stay Joy fueled and Jesus Led, Toni and Matt finish breaking down Spiral Dynamics and finally have the discussion of how this affects the way people approach expressing gratitude.

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    21 mins
  • 60. Thank You Hang Ups (Reciprocity norms) through the Lens of Spiral Dynamics (1)
    Dec 13 2023

    In this episode of "Struggling to be Joy Fueled and Jesus Led," Toni asks Matt why some people resist thanking others who have given to them. And why some may feel manipulated when they get a thank you. What goes on in someone that would make them resist sending (or receiving) a thank-you card, or a gratitude text, etc. Matt turns to the human development model of Spiral Dynamics to make sense of our differing attitudes around reciprocity. This is the first of a few podcasts on this topic.


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    49 mins
  • 59. Making peace with Ourselves, Continued. Matt summarizeshow to lead our impulsive tendencies and our legalistic tendencies into Love.
    Dec 7 2023

    Matt summarizes all that has been talked about regarding addictive structures and stages of moral development. Most of us are “half-baked” so to speak and the beauty of life together is that we can agree on rhythms that lead us into healthy connections with ourselves, each other and God together. Do you have healthy rhythms in your life and community that lead you into relationships? If not, go to LK10.com to learn healthy rhythms that can carry all of the people in your community, no matter what stage of development they are in.


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    20 mins
  • 58. Making Peace with Ourselves: An intimate conversation between Matt and Toni on how to lead our impulsive tendencies and our legalistic tendencies into Love
    Nov 30 2023

    In this episode, Matt and Toni talk honestly and openly about addiction and how the path toward freedom is a path of compassion and relational intimacy within yourself, with God, and with each other. Shame, blame, and disconnection are not helpful, yet for many of us that is the only path that has been modeled for us. Listen in to hear what it look like to walk in Love with ourselves and others when we are struggling. Start training with LK10.com today to form healthy rhythms of attention that lead you and your family into relationship and Love.


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    1 hr and 2 mins
  • 57. Impulsive, rules based or love led. Part 2
    Nov 22 2023
    How pre-conventional impulsivity looks differently in Toni than in Matt. And ways it be harnessed by Love for our good and God’s glory.
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    9 mins