What’s it like to talk with a Type 8? Passionate. Direct. Powerful. And sometimes, intense. In this episode, Kelly shares from her own experience as a Type 8—what works, what doesn't, and what eights most need from you in communication. Damon helps us see how that energy can feel to others, especially when it gets misunderstood. Whether you're an Eight, love one, or work with one, this conversation unpacks the heart behind the boldness and the vulnerability behind the strength.

Episode Highlights:

• Why directness is a strength—but also a challenge—for Type 8s
• Kelly shares how texting “OK” nearly caused a crisis
• The difference between being blunt vs. being clear
• What Eights really mean when their volume goes up
• How to hold space for a powerful personality without backing down
• Why protecting people and causes drives how Eights communicate
• How to gain trust and connection with a Type 8 (and what breaks it)
• Damon’s reminder: “Don’t match intensity—just be yourself.”
• What Eights want you to know but won’t always say out loud

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Type Fives are thoughtful, observant, and incredibly insightful—if you give them the space to speak. In this episode, Damon and Kelly unpack how Fives approach communication, why they avoid surface-level conversations, and what it really takes to earn their input and trust. If you’ve ever wondered what’s going on behind a Five’s quiet presence, this one’s for you.

In This Episode:

• Why Type Fives value space, privacy, and logic in conversations
• The strengths of Fives: listening, simplifying, and strategic thinking
• How to communicate with Fives: clear expectations, emotional patience, and deadlines
• The challenge of emotional expression and how Fives can grow
• Real-life team dynamics and funny truths about meeting leadership

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How do you talk with someone who’s always giving, always helping, and always putting others first? In this episode, Damon and Kelly dive into the warm, people-focused world of the Enneagram Two — and why communication with them can feel like a hug, a therapy session, and a pep talk all in one.

Whether you are a 2 or love one, this conversation unpacks what motivates them, how to respond to their generosity, and why setting boundaries is key to real connection.

In This Episode:

• The superpower of Twos: empathy, generosity, and relational radar
• Why Twos ask “how are you?” — and really mean it
• The danger of overextending: when helping becomes self-forgetting
• How to communicate with a Two instead of being steamrolled by one
• A growth path: pausing before saying “yes” and practicing self-care

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How does an Enneagram Six communicate? In this episode, Damon and Kelly explore the loyal, thoughtful, and cautious communication style of Sixes — and how trust, safety, and preparation shape their voice. Whether you’re a Type 6 or trying to connect with one, this episode will help you understand what’s behind their questions and what they need to feel secure.

In This Episode:

• The superpower of Sixes: loyalty and preparedness
• Why Sixes ask a lot of questions — and why that’s a strength
• How to communicate with Sixes: clarity, consistency, and trust-building
• Common challenges: anxiety about worst-case scenarios
• A growth path for Sixes: learning to trust their inner guidance

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How does an Enneagram Type 3 communicate — and what’s really going on beneath the polish? In this episode, Damon and Kelly dive into the world of the driven, adaptable, and image-conscious Three. Discover why communication for a 3 is all about connection, competence, and results… and how to speak their language without assuming they’re just putting on a show.

Whether you are a 3, love a 3, or work with one, this episode will help you affirm their value beyond performance — and deepen the kind of relationship they truly crave.

In This Episode:

• Why 3s often shape-shift to meet expectations — and how it can look “fake”
• The deep drive for success, and how it impacts how they speak and listen
• How to affirm the 3 for who they are, not just what they do
• The challenge of slowing down, showing weakness, and sharing feelings
• A growth path for Type 3s: vulnerability, authenticity, and self-acceptance

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How does an Enneagram Four communicate? In this episode, Damon and Kelly explore the creative, emotional, and deeply authentic style of Fours — and what it means to truly be with them in conversation. Whether you are a 4 or love one, this episode helps you understand their inner world, and how to connect with empathy, not just answers.

In This Episode:

• The superpower of Fours: authenticity in emotion and expression
• Why Fours crave depth in conversations and often avoid small talk
• How to communicate with Fours: using presence, empathy, and validation
• Common challenges Fours face: feeling misunderstood or dismissed
• A growth path for Fours: learning to balance logic with emotion

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How do you respond to change? In our 100th episode, we explore how each Enneagram type handles change — from resistance to adventure — and why it matters. Plus, a big shift is coming for the podcast (and we finally reveal it).

• Type 9: Does this change interrupt my peace?
• Type 8: Does this change restrict my freedom?
• Type 7: Does this change bring excitement?
• Type 6: What could go wrong if I change?
• Type 5: Does this change disrupt my personal space or clarity?
• Type 4: Will this change help me express who I really am?
• Type 3: Will this change help me be more effective or succeed?
• Type 2: Will this change help others?
• Type 1: Does this change make things better?

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In this episode of EnneagramU, we explore how different Enneagram types communicate, focusing specifically on Type 1. We discuss the strengths and challenges of Type 1 communication, including their tendency to be precise and honest, but also potentially critical. We also provide tips on how to effectively communicate with Type 1 individuals, emphasizing the importance of active listening and gentle feedback.

1. Overview of Enneagram Type 1 Communication Style
- Precise and detail-oriented
- Focus on improving things and getting them right
- Matter-of-fact and straightforward communication
- Tendency to use the word "should"

2. Strengths and Challenges of Type 1 Communication
- Strength: Honesty and integrity in communication
- Challenge: May come across as judgmental or critical
- Growth area: Practicing active listening

3. How to Communicate with Type 1s
- Explore different perspectives gently
- Be gentle with criticism, as they are already self-critical
- Provide clarity and directness in communication
- Acknowledge and appreciate their good decisions and efforts

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