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Status Anxiety
- Narrated by: Alain de Botton
- Length: 2 hrs and 51 mins
- Abridged Audiobook
- Categories: Health & Wellness, Psychology & Mental Health
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For the first time, Alain de Botton gives a name to this universal condition and sets out to investigate both its origins and possible solutions. He looks at history, philosophy, economics, art, and politics, and reveals the many ingenious ways that great minds have overcome their worries.
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- Judy Corstjens
- 16-07-10
Talking about taboos
Alain de Bottin is intelligent and educated, and it is a pleasure to listen to his lucid, honest and sympathetic analysis of the human need for status. It has long been observed that there is a contradiction between the amount of goods enjoyed by our society and the happiness delivered by this material success. This book goes a long way towards explaining that conundrum.
6 people found this helpful
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- Duncan
- 20-05-06
excellent
Light and well read by the author.
Easily understandable.
Not lost in scholorly details but dealing with
important issues relevant to a truly social life.
Please read this.
6 people found this helpful
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- David M Sumner-Smith
- 24-01-22
An academic treatise of little practical worth
I generally enjoy the author's work. But this reads like an academic dissertation. If you are in search of any practical guidance, look elsewhere.
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- Cristine
- 10-06-22
fantastic book and beautiful reading
another amazing work by the author
beautiful reading too
helps to digest the idea of death assists on the constant anxiety of daily struggles at work
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- Anonymous User
- 03-06-21
Essential
Another great work from Alain De Botton. Growing ever more essential as the world tends toward an insatiable desire for the bourgeoisie.
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- J
- 18-01-19
Interesting
Good listen. Quality recording. The subject matter refers to some interesting further reading or listening.
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- Maria
- 04-12-16
Wonderful
It is worth listening to this - if for no other reason, in order to consider an alternative perspective..
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- Andrew
- 21-06-05
This guy is amazing
If you like History, philosophy and psychology its all in here. Alain de Botton gathers up peoples' ideas from the last few hundred years and unveils a kind of secret depression that most people in western society suffers from and don't really understand or even know its there. The author explains some of the reasons why we get depressed over things like money, luxery goods and other peoples' opinion of us and by explaining this depression we are somewhat alleviated from it. He is a good speaker whos choice in words are very poetic. This book really opened my eyes and had an great effect on me.
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- Calvin
- 01-11-05
excellent
A must read. One of my ten most important books.
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- Amazon Customer
- 10-04-17
loved it
great book!
Alain De Botton is a very eloquent writer and a good reader.
this book puts things in perspective. I really like that Alain never presumes to do the thinking for you. His work is never prescriptive. Instead he provides a wealth of perspectives that help you think clearer and make your own decisions.
A very easy and thought-provoking read.
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- Cay.S
- 11-02-13
Illuminating
I found this book to help explain much of why modern society is so highly strung. Knowing the psychology around it has helped me relax a little around "status anxiety". It was an enjoyable read