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The Ethical Slut

By: Janet W. Hardy, Dossie Easton
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Summary

For anyone who has ever dreamed of love, sex, and companionship beyond the limits of traditional monogamy, this groundbreaking guide navigates the infinite possibilities that open relationships can offer. Experienced ethical sluts Dossie Easton and Janet W. Hardy dispel myths and cover all the skills necessary to maintain a successful and responsible polyamorous lifestyle - from self-reflection and honest communication to practicing safe sex and raising a family. Individuals and their partners will learn how to discuss and honor boundaries, resolve conflicts, and define relationships on their own terms.

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"I couldn't stop reading it, and I for one identify as an ethical slut. This is a book for anyone interested in creating more pleasure in their lives...a complete guide to improving any style of relating, from going steady to having an extended family of sexual friends." (Betty Dodson, PhD, author of Sex for One)

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Very good, though a bit patronizing at times

I very much enjoyed this book, lots of good hippies and feminist spirits, though I definitely prefer "more than two" in terms of Polyamory as it has -in my opinion- a better stance with regards to veto rights and hierarchical relationships (both of which are dealt with more critical in MTT). I also found TES slightly more rebellious, but perhaps that's perhaps because it is a newer book, faced with the challenge of introducing a new concept, whereas MTT most likely built upon that knowledge.

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For all those wanting to broaden their mindset !

I’m not in a poly relationship, nor do I think the life style is for me, but this book is a must for anyone who likes to have no restraints and likes the kinker, exploring, and fun side of sex!

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I loved it

amazing book, amazingly read by the authors. this is what I needed, I'm not sure how I lived my life without this book so far

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Amazing book!

An amazing book to feel understood When your desires are “not normative”.
To everyone who would like to know about different ways of living

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loved it

outdated language at times, but still great content. made me feel very accepted and I appreciate the practical approach

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A thought provoking book.

A great book for anyone interested in learning about sex, relationships, communication, and more about the different lifestyles people choose. I think some of the advice surrounding communication can be extrapolated to any relationships, not just those that fall under polyamory. Not so much a guide, but a well informed look from a very sex positive point of view. A must read for anyone although I personally got a lot from it and learned quite a bit. Don't be ashamed by reading this, embrace the sluttery and get your rocks off by giving it a go!

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Useful to younger audiences

The book was well structured and included some very useful information about relationships in general. However, I found that it did not offer me any new information. I'm in my mid 30s and have experienced a plethora of relationships (monogamous so far, new to the ENM world). All the knowledge in this book, I have found that I already possessed from life experience. I guess poly relationships aren't that much different to any other human relationships. I do think however it is a very lovely book for younger people, it is a great way to introduce them into the world of ethical non monogamy!

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Truly a practical guide

Hilarious and entertaining, even as I read it a second time. Great advice that I enjoy putting to practice in my relationships.

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Outstanding loved every second

Thanks so much to the Author's Janet W. Hardy and Dossie Easton for writing this book it was wonderful to listen to I have learned so much :)

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Fantastic

One of the best books I’ve read in a very long time.

It’s defining.... I resonated with so much of what was said and felt completely validated in my views and approaches to being an ethical Slut.

Very well done & thank you 🙏🏾

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