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The Big O
- An Empowering Guide to Loving, Dating and F*cking
- Narrated by: Oloni
- Length: 10 hrs and 23 mins
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Summary
With exclusive bonus audio material! Oloni discusses dilemmas from real women and imparts her indispensable advice.
Are you ready to have the best sex of your life?
Oloni—Twitter’s famous sex and relationships educator—is on a mission to empower women to explore, express and embrace their sensual, sexy selves.
The ultimate sex-positive manifesto will show you how to reclaim and pursue your sexual desires, sensuality, autonomy, and pleasure. By breaking down taboos, rejecting shame, and refusing repression, we can all harness the power of sexual freedom and start enjoying the—sex—life we’ve always dreamt of.
With infectious energy, honesty, and humour, The Big O gives women a space to celebrate topics and conversations that have historically only been whispered behind closed doors. This book will inspire you—and educate you—on how to communicate with your partner (and yourself!) to have the best sex of your life, as well as debunking taboos and delving deep into important topics that need bringing into the spotlight; from masturbation and sex toys, to kinks, virginity, sexual identities, and sex positions you won’t know how you ever lived without.
Everyone and every body needs Oloni in their life, even if they don’t know it yet…
So ladies, shall we have some fun…?
Critic reviews
"The reigning sex and relationship guru of Twitter." (Vogue)
"The expert bringing sex positivity (and spice) to Twitter and your group chats." (Los Angeles Times)
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- Kemi Quadri
- 15-01-23
Simply amazing
So refreshing and empowering. Thank you Oloni for a great read. I have smiled and laughed and smiled some more 🫶🏾
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- ShopERB
- 13-12-22
Everyone should read this!
I read (listened) this on a recommendation of a friend. And thoroughly enjoyed it. I’ve now bought the hardback, so I can give it out to people to read.
Oloni’s book is seriously something that everyone should read - both women and men - to empower them with the information they need, not only to have enriched sex lives, but how to do it safely, maturely and with knowledge behind them. There’s nothing more empowering than knowledge, and Oloni presents information clearly, concisely and with absolutely no judgement.
Well done, lady! Excellent book! Hopefully it’ll be on the school curriculum as essential reading for ALL (late)teens one day soon.
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- Sarah
- 01-01-23
Amazing book
This book is filled with sexual knowledge and you’ll learn a lot. 10/10 for me. I would definitely recommend
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- Ella
- 05-01-23
I keep going back
This book was so good, it’s so empowering and informative. I just recently had sex for the first time and I’m so ready and confident to start my sexual journey. Would recommend to a friend… in fact I already have!
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- B
- 30-10-22
Very informative
this was such a good read. Very descriptive and a one of a kind.
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- Ola
- 29-11-22
Amazing and refreshing
Beautiful brave and informative. Great read with so many gems. keep doing what you’re doing babes xx
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- Anonymous User
- 02-02-23
Amazing book
Such a great read! I have followed Oloni for years now on social media and she always offers insightful and thoughtful advice to her followers’ dilemmas. I am so glad Oloni has written this book and created an audiobook too; I’m sure the target audience will have their dilemmas or thoughts on dating, sex and relationships covered in this book. Definitely recommend a read/listen, especially for cishet women who sleep with men! Oloni really advises her readers and listeners to ensure they are advocating for themselves in regards to their pleasure, sexual health and emotional needs in their romantic relationships. Oloni also discusses sexuality, hers and other people’s experiences growing up which demonstrates how important it is for her and other educators to continue their work. The audiobook is also really easy to follow, especially as other people read messages Oloni receives from her followers. Definitely recommend!
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- GGgotcurls
- 09-01-23
Really great book EVERYONE should read
This book is so informative, I definitely feel more confident sexually and have only just started trying new things including sex toys!
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- N. Nixon
- 09-09-23
Needed this 20 years ago
As a mid-forties mum of two in a long-term LGBTQ relationship, I’m not the demographic for this book, which I stuck with till the bitter end.
Which is a real shame because if there’s any demographic who needs to know how to nail the big O it’s us!
I appreciate Oloni can only speak from her own experience but for me, while she has had far more experience and fun in the bedroom than I had at her age, this book spoke without life experience.
Sometimes we can’t just up and leave relationships because we’re not being satisfied, life’s just not that simple.
And as a woman who has actively chosen not to have penises in her life, after hearing ‘dick’ enough times I started to feel the ick.
That said, the content did give me a view on masturbation every woman should hear as well as tons of confidence to have conversations about sex and sexual health with my children.
And, had I have read this book back in my twenties, who knows how much more fun I could have had?! So if that’s you right now, go for it!
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