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Summary

On the cusp of his 25th birthday, Bo Sanford grows frustrated with his directionless life. Slaving away at his father's construction company all week and partying every weekend leaves him little time for introspection, but he knows it's time for a change. When his best friend Mac drags him to a college party, Bo catches sight of a girl. But not just any girl - the girl of his dreams: a delicate blonde-haired beauty with a pink scarf and a smile that promises warmth and humor. There's just one problem: She isn't a girl.

Even after Bo discovers the truth, he keeps seeing Erick, and the choice to follow his heart despite the obstacles has profound repercussions on not only his sense of self, but his relationship with his family and even his job. Being with Erick makes him all the more determined to be his own man and claw his way out from under his father's thumb.

But Erick faces choices of his own: the choice to get involved with someone redefining his sexuality, the choice to trust again, and even the choice to believe love can last beyond the temporary.

©2013 K. L. Belanger (P)2014 Dreamspinner Press

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Choices

It's the first time listening to this author and the second time listening to the narrator. They both did a great job. Eric and Bo are likeable characters and I enjoyed the story between the two ot them. Their relationship is interesting.
The narration was absolutely brilliant. Jonathan Waters expressed the emotions very well and it was a pleasure to listen to him. I keep an eye to the narrator!

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Choices and Changes

I really enjoyed this book. Bo spots an attractive person at a party. He doesn't realize that that person was a man at first. Instead of freaking out completely, he agrees to talk to Eric. The start hanging out more frequently and Bo begins to actually get feelings for Eric. This was a slow and sweet book. Johanna Waters did a great job narrating.

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choices

I enjoyed listening to Jonathan Waters, a very good narrator.

A emotional plot, we have controlling abuse. The characters have great strength . Bo accepts his bisexuality and Erik is the first man he is attracted to.

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Healing and Discovery

This book is more about each man’s journey in self discovery / reflection and healing and very little to do with sex.

Bo is stuck in life and manages to make several changes that finally move him to a place of happiness.

Eric is able to heal from a traumatic event and learn to trust again.

No later what you fee about the life style, this book will have you reflect on what drives you to make the decisions you make in your like.

Definitely a good read.

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choices and changes wow,wow.

this my 1st time listening to this author and narrator a wonderful book about love and yes what a difference it makes on who you fall in love with. I would love there to be a follow up on Bo and Eric love life.
Thank you Johnathan for allowing me this free book throughly enjoyed listening to you. I would recommend this book x

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Great storyline

This book really helps you to understand different relationships and the emotion felt while realising where your heart belongs. Jonathan gives a heartfelt performance which is amazing.

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  • Heather K (Dentist in my Spare Time)
  • 30-10-14

Pretty good gay-for-you!

**3.5 stars**

"A little less conversation, a little more action."

Yup, that's what I'm talking about!

I LOVE a good GFY. Give me a guy whose never been with another guy or has never been into guys before and yadda, yadda, yadda ---> SEXY TIME, and I'm a happy girl! What can I say, I'm easy to please! I also usually adore lots of talking. I love characters to really get to know one another and establish a great connection before moving on to a relationship. But here, it was HOURS (in audiobook time) of talking, hours of self-discovery, and while I appreciate the effort that went into developing these characters, it sort of dragged at parts.

This book was certainly insta-attraction and, arguably, insta-love. The two MCs had a spark between them that really came through to the readers. I usually hate any sorts of "insta" in my romances, but it kind of worked here. I bought the idea that these two guys saw each other from across a crowded room (awww) and felt that "this is it" sensation.

I also loved the way that we got to know the characters. I really felt such a sense of connection to them, and I understood exactly where each of them were coming from.

Just a warning for some readers; there is very little sex content in this story. Sure, there are some scenes, but they are pretty sparse. If you are looking for something scorching hot, look elsewhere.

In terms of the audiobook narrator, I thought he did a decent job. There wasn't as much differentiation between the voices as I would have liked, and the narrator was pretty forgettable, but I was able to focus on the story and get into it. He had a pleasant voice that was easy to listen to, and while he won't make my list of favorite narrators, I would listen to a story from him again.

All in all, if you like slow-paced GFY with a good heaping of angst and lots of self-reflection, this story is for you!

**Copy provided by the publisher in exchange for an honest review**

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  • Annika
  • 29-03-18

I loved it, it's heartfelt and beautiful

I loved this book. I loved the simplicity of it. There was no unnecessary drama for the sake of it. It was just life and all the twists and turns, ups and downs that come with it, and I loved every minute of it.

Bo is dragged to a college party by his best friend and is reluctantly trying to have a good time. That is until he sees her. The One. He instantly recognizes her as the person he’s supposed to spend his life with. The is only one problem. She is not a she. She is Erick, a psychology student and a man. Shocked by that discovery Bo literally runs and hide to try to make sense of what he’s thinking and feeling. Only Erick follows him and they strike up a conversation, a conversation that lasts all night and is brutally honest and real.

They start something that night that neither of them is sure of. They have this instant connection, but are unsure what to make of it. If they can trust it – or each other. The relationship is a slow-burn one, and watching them grow into the relationship was beautiful.

One of my favourite things in books is when I can believe in the story and the characters. I don’t want picture perfect and flawless, nothing bores me more. Give me flawed, insecure or scarred characters – human characters and I will be truly happy. Belanger delivered that in spades. Choices and changes is the one and only published book by this author (as far as I know at least). But that doesn’t show with this book. It’s well written with a well thought-out plot and developed characters. If she ever decides to publish more books I will happily read them.

Jonathan Waters end up in the okay column for his narration of this book. A huge plus for me is when the narrators adds feeling to what they narrate and not only reads the words. Waters did that really well. The only thing I wished for was more distinction between the voices, at times it could be a bit difficult to follow who was speaking.

This book is real, everything about it is genuine. It’s heartfelt and simply beautiful. You can’t help but falling for the characters, feel with them when they struggle, and be happy with them when things are good. It’s just a wonderful read and one I highly recommend.

A copy of this book was generously provided by the publisher in exchange for an honest review for Love Bytes

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  • Morgan A Skye
  • 12-01-17

Not great ending, but good first effort

Bo is a straight guy – really – who is attracted to this “person” (he thinks it’s a woman) at a party. Well, it turns out it’s a guy, but the two end up talking anyway, and striking up a friendship. Bo, it seems, is not so very homophobic that he can’t conceive of something more, though he’d never thought of it before meeting Erick.
Erick is a psych major who doesn’t listen to his own advice. He’s been burned badly in his past and though he sees himself as a “helper to those in need” he doesn’t see a permanent relationship in his near (or even distant) future. He agrees to see Bo, as friends, and the two end up very close.
On a day when every thing bad seems to happen at once, Bo and Erick take their relationship to the next level. It’s everything Bo thought it would be and he’s hopeful about the future. He doesn’t know how to “come out” but Erick urges him to keep it quiet until he’s more secure about their relationship. This will come to haunt the pair down the line.
Meanwhile, at work, things are spiraling downward for Bo and he has to make a tough decision: stay with his jerk of a father as his employee or strike out on his own, possibly losing jobs for his friends. Erick would be there to help with this decision, but he’s tackling ghosts of his own past.
When the dust finally settles, Erick has tackled his ghosts (somewhat) and Bo has made his decision (as well as come out) and the pair decide to try to go forward in what can only be called a solid HFN, probably HEA.
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Let me say that my first impression of the cover and the blurb were a bit misleading. I thought it was going to be more of a transsexual/transgender/transvestite type book. There is nothing of that in this book. Erick is only vaguely feminine and does not ever cross-dress or even wear make-up.
I really liked the beginning of this book, up to about the 60% mark. It was a slow burn, but it beautifully built up their relationship in a way that I haven’t seen a lot of GFYs do. They were truly friends first and only with careful consideration, did they move forward. It seemed very organic and realistic.
From that point forward, however, it sort of disintegrated for me. I had a hard time understanding Erick’s reluctance to trust Bo – yes he’d had some really bad relationships in his past, but it’s now been literally weeks/months of them being together. Surely he could at least talk about these things, or hint at them. He’s a psych major for Pete’s sake. I also felt the absence of a physical relationship was a little unrealistic. The author talks about the MCs having erections all the time, suggesting the attraction, but there are pages and pages of only dialog. It seems to me that two guys hot for each other would at least acknowledge the attraction and make a “plan” if nothing else.
I really disliked where it was left at the end. It felt so unsatisfying. After the immense build up of friendship, a brief moment of togetherness, a separation, a reconciliation and then the finale, the last 40% seemed disproportionately rushed, especially when there was so much for them to overcome. Though we did get one final closure scene, it was brief and not very fulfilling.
So, for a new author, I was definitely impressed. I would look for more from her in the future, but I did have some complaints with the story arc itself. Her writing was nice and flowed well and I’m looking forward to seeing what she produces next.
I would recommend this as a quiet love story where the back stories overshadow the sex and it would be really age-appropriate for a YA/NA grouping.

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Jonathan Waters is new for new as a narrator and he did a nice job. He is one of the narrators who does not do a lot of voice changes or “acting” but his reading was solid and clear, easy to listen to and immerse in the words of the author.

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3.5 stars – I liked it

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  • Tammy M
  • 31-01-15

Just as good, if not better, than the e-book!

Where does Choices and Changes rank among all the audiobooks you’ve listened to so far?

Close to the top. Perfect marriage of written words and narration.

What did you like best about this story?

The way Bo and Erick slowly fall in love with each other.

What about Jonathan Waters’s performance did you like?

Everything. Especially the way he put so much venom in the character of Bo's dad, the man is truly ignorant and hateful, and you could literally hear that in his character.

Was this a book you wanted to listen to all in one sitting?

It was, but it took 2 days.

Any additional comments?

It's been almost two years since I initially read Choices and Changes, as it was not only a favorite read but my first gay for you type story, I was anxious to dive into the audio version and visit with Bo and Erick again. Jonathan Waters did an amazing job of bringing Belanger's words to life, of giving Bo and Erick a distinct voice in his retelling. These two young men are portrayed so realistic, relateable, flawed and approachable that you can't help but fall in love with them, and root for them to find their own little piece of happiness.

Something that stood out more so in the audio version for me than it did in the print was the overbearing and abusive personality of Bo's dad. While this isn't the type of story where there is a villain per say, this asshat still managed to achieve villain status in my mind while I was listening to this story. I thought I was going to have to take a chill pill, literally, when he started in on Bo in the office the first time Bo tried to quit. And then to find out the truth behind what happened with Bo's mom, I seriously wanted to strangle the SOB. And Waters truly found this gravely, mean and hateful tone for the father that conveyed just how ugly a character he really was. Great job sir!

Colorful narration brought to life this richly written story about a strong young man that is struggling to figure out who he is and refuses to be labeled. If you have the opportunity, I suggest both reading and listening to this story, as each version is just as good as the other, and both are just a treat!

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  • Michelle
  • 18-01-22

Good Book

Well written and rather realistic. I have written critiques in the past complaining when miscommunication is the engine driving plot .. but that is not the case with this book. I say this because its completely believable that a person can be so wrapped up in their own brain that they don't even see what they think .. I loved how although the attraction was instantaneous and very strong for both - the relationship doesn't jump into sexual for some time (and I usually hate "slow burn" lol) .

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  • Mindy hughes
  • 25-10-21

Sweet story of finding oneself

First time listening to this author and narrator. They both did à great job. I enjoyed the story between Éric and Bo. Lots of conflict within family and their relationship but it was well handled.

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  • Pamela
  • 08-09-21

Bo and Erick

This is book is about discovery, family dysfunction, and love. I loved how the story takes us on a journey of self discovery of one’s own sexuality and also about family drama. These characters both have issues to deal with and neither have a great stable family background for support. Leaning on each other while finding themselves is a great way to fall in love, without having jumped into sex right away. I highly recommend this book and loved the narration.
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  • Tammy B Oakley
  • 25-08-21

Absolutely brilliant, another 2021 favorite!💜

This story was well written and appropriately paced IMO. I love it when a story takes the time to build up the relationship. It’s especially important when a character is just discovering who they are and whether or not they are prepared to make a life changing decision. There was so much hot chemistry between the characters that I was ready to combust by the time they connected. Plenty of family drama and angst as well as play time.
The narration was absolutely brilliant. Jonathan Waters does a stellar performance with all the emotions of these characters. His voices are easily distinguishable and he absolutely nailed the intimate scenes. Whew!
I highly recommend this book.

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  • escritora
  • 14-06-21

Touching!

This is a poignant story of discovering one's true self and understanding that it's always been a part of a greater plan. Bo is struggling with his life as what he sees as being a verbal punching bag for his father at Sanford and Sons Construction. His vision is to go into business for himself, but it will come with certain sacrifice. At a party, he notices a beautiful blonde woman and feels a strong draw to her. The "woman" is actually Erick, beautiful blond man who will change Bo's life. There is an immediate spark, but the slow burn between them is delectable. This is a well-conceived and nicely-written story of self-discovery and self-acceptance that I never knew I needed. 
Jonathan Waters did an admirable job with the narration as he brought all of the characters to life. His rendition of Bo and Erick is realistic and sensitive, while he gives Andrea a starring role! 

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  • B.McGrath
  • 02-06-21

emotional trip

I went through so many emotions listening to this. I empathized for Bo and Eric. Scott was a vile vicious creature who deserved jail time. Bo's dad sickened me with his verbal abuses and controlling nature. He alienated hid kids rather than holding them close im his heart. I was happy Bo and Eric had the strength to go after what they needed and wanted. I voluntarily listened to a free copy of this and am giving an honest review. The narrator did a great job bringing the characters and story to life.